Kathy Loris
New member
...consumption what to do? I was speaking to this guy in a chat room and I said that I am a social drinker he asked how much do I drink a week I said 3 bottles of wine or cocktail in a weekend he was like "oh ok that's too much you're not a social drinker if that is how much you drink that's not social drinking you need to cut way down" I said "no thats not that much" he said "oh yes it is that's not normal drinking" I asked him then what is normal drinking he said "you can have a few glasses of wine on the weekends every two weeks but that's it no more then that" I started arguing with him saying how a few drinks on the weekend every two weeks is mad strict and how it isn't enough for me he would say "it's more then enough" I'd continue arguing with him and saying I am refusing to stick to this he then said "umm ok I think you have a drinking problem and I think you need help I think you need to go to alcoholics annoymous" I said no I don't need help he said "well why are you complaining about that not being enough for you? You said you're a social drinker social drinkers never complain about something not being enough for them whether they are given an 8 ounce glass of wine, a 4 ounces glass of wine heck even a sip of wine is enough for them they do not complain this isn't enough for me like you do that's the behavior of an alcoholic an alcoholic would say that but not a social drinker also social drinkers can go weeks without alcohol even months and not even think much about it and be ok and you went ballistic when I said you can only drink every two weeks I think you have a drinking problem I think you need help you should try alcoholics annoymous" I said "hell no I aint going to no alcoholics annoymous" he said "yes you are" I said "no I'm not" and it went around back and forth like that he said yes you are I said no I'm not fir like ten minutes straight then he finally got mad and said "you're going end of story you need help and if you refuse to go I'll drag you there by your arms and legs if I have to but you are an alcoholic and you need help I am doing this for your own good I am trying to save your life I don't want you to die"
and I said to him that he is out of his mind and that I wont die he said "yes I will alcoholism kills people and I am doing this so you wont have to die" and then he said "you can either go on your own free will or I will drag you into that AA meeting kicking and screaming if I have to and I don't care who at the meeting sees if they ask what's going on I'll just explain the situation to them so you can either go willingly or I will drag you there kicking and screaming what will it be?" and I said I wont go you have to drag me there" he said "no problem I will" and he asked for my address and I gave him a fake one and he said he will be at my door in a few days to drag me to AA. I hate this guy I think he is crazy and nuts and belongs in a mental hospital what to do? Should I call the mental hospital and have this crazy guy commited?
Ron I do not even have custody of my daughter Rainesha. She is in the custody of my mom not mine therefore she cannot be taken away.
and I said to him that he is out of his mind and that I wont die he said "yes I will alcoholism kills people and I am doing this so you wont have to die" and then he said "you can either go on your own free will or I will drag you into that AA meeting kicking and screaming if I have to and I don't care who at the meeting sees if they ask what's going on I'll just explain the situation to them so you can either go willingly or I will drag you there kicking and screaming what will it be?" and I said I wont go you have to drag me there" he said "no problem I will" and he asked for my address and I gave him a fake one and he said he will be at my door in a few days to drag me to AA. I hate this guy I think he is crazy and nuts and belongs in a mental hospital what to do? Should I call the mental hospital and have this crazy guy commited?
Ron I do not even have custody of my daughter Rainesha. She is in the custody of my mom not mine therefore she cannot be taken away.