i really don't want to have sex with her, or even get past second! but i don't know

[James]

what she wants. help? we're both 16 and were in high school and what i feel for her has to be love. it just has to. now the thing is, my friends in school, with their girlfriends their all going through 3rd and even having sex! (in case you don't know, 1st-make out, 2nd- feel up, 3rd- eat out, home- sex) now what's different from my friends is that their all happy and everything about "getting some" and at times it even seems like that is the only reason why they're going out with the girl...... the problem with me is that i honestly do not give a crap if we have sex or not! i don't even care about getting passed 2nd! all i want is her and who she is, not her body for the sex. now i'll do anything for her so i'm sure that is she would ever want to, she'd tell me. but my question for you people is; will it destroy our relationship? let's say we do have sex or do sexual acts.... will that just become the center of our relationship and destroy our love? please help me....