I try my best to be conscious of what I say, but from time to time I happen to just mention things straight from my mind that offends people, or I tried to joke/irritate jokingly but to a very poor result, often resulting in the other party fuming or disgusted. Anything to help? I am really trying hard, and whenever these things happen, I know I did something wrong immediately and will feel very guilty for the next few days, not knowing how to make up for it too, since the damage was already done. HELP!!