JustAsking
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I am embarrassed to write this, but at the same time I want to know what the public thinks. I was "followed" on numerous occasions by an famous individual that lived in my neighborhood. At first I thought it was coincidence, but after I saw this person parked near my house and watch me run in the mornings, I was freaked out. I felt violated and the only reason I never told the cops is because he never really approached me (every time he tried and ran the other direction or ignored him). I believe that this individual has moved from my neighborhood because I haven't seen him around, but at times I get paranoid and (I swear) I can just feel his presence. I am having trouble moving on from this experience because I feel that I didn't do anything protect myself and fight back. It kills me that I didn't say (f-you, go to hell, or who do you think you are). I know that my actions were the safest, but I feel like the ball is in my court now and if I see, it's my turn to confront him ***which in reality is bad. This experience has been hunting me and I have obviously don't have closure. How do people move on from being victimized? I would have rather dealt with someone that was more forward than in the background because bruises heal quicker than emotional abuse. There is nothing that I will do or should do to this person. I need to let go and move on from this fear and anger. If you would like to comment, please do.