im jus torn up
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Im 21,he's 22. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 1/2- 3 years. We get along great, and at the beginning, we were both so infatuiated with each other; couldnt get enough of each other. For about the past year, i have been feeling the "spark" between us has been dying down. Usually, im the sweet one, hugging him, kissing him, holding his hand...etc etc. He never really was the type to do things like that. Sometimes he interacts with it, and then a majority of the time, he just squirms or moves away from me and i started to find it annoying. I tried talking to him about it NUMEROUS times, and it always ends up turning into a verbal ridiculous argument. I dont understand why I need to address the lack of affection, im not used to that, in my previous relationship, my bf was so loving and sweet and touchy feely (no perverted'ness involved) I would imagine guys just do things liek that, when they love you. My problem now is, i have been feeling a bit distant from him emotionally/romantically (though we are intimate) and i am almost to the point that i want to leave him. Because im tired of having to spoon feed him, what should just come naturally. Im thinking that he's just too comfortable now and I cant stand the lack of affection any longer. What he doesnt do, another guy will. Am i wrong?