I need some help!! i have some questions about sex and shit. help!? pleasee?

[Melanie K]

okay so me and my bf have been dating a while and we talked way before we dated. but anyways he hads done alot of things for girls and he is not making me do anything like we have talked about it but he said he will wait but like he said he wants to finger me and i kinda want him two. but its just i dont really know much. and like i have asked him many questions about it but i dont wanna keep asking things. but like does it hurt? what do i do? he say he doesnt want anything back but do i do something back? what do i do after? or before? or when hes doing it? do i say anything after? do i say anything when hes doing it? like i really dont know. and is it weird for guys? what is it all like when it is happing? i would really like to know so could someone please helpp!!???!