Vlad Colchiski
New member
I need a question answered that has been bothering me most of the day. I believe I am going through what is called fraternal birth order effect also know as older brother effect because I live in a family of three older brothers (for those of you who don't know what it is here is a link that explains it clearly http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternal_birth_order_and_male_sexual_orientation). I regarded my myself as bisexual when I was younger at about the age of 13 (however I did not come out to my friends about it until I was in High School) . But about year ago I discovered that I was actually gay and accepted it. But my question is what about the attraction I had to women when I considered myself bi. Was that all just a lie that my conscious had made up in denial while my subconsciously I have always been unknowingly attracted to other men? A thorough and and unoffensive answer would be very helpful. Thank you