Jamie Scott
New member
Hey people,
I'm a 21 yr old female that has little to no sex drive left. I've been dating a guy for almost a year now and I can tell the frustration is starting to build. I am a virgin and I used to have a pretty healthy drive during high school. I started using the pill (Yaz) because I loved how it kept everything regulated. My concern now is that it's totally wiped my sex drive.
Mentally I want to do stuff with my boyfriend but my body doesn't. It hasn't always been this way....as I've been in some pretty shitty relationships in the past yet i've wanted to be sexual but mentally and emotionally wasn't ready as well.
Currently my boyfriend and I still "mess around" but I know he's getting a bit frustrated. He's had sex with several partners before and I don't want to disappoint him but he knows my body isn't reacting the same way. We would make out and feel each other up...he even does the stuff I tell him which used to get me going like put my arms up behind my head and grind his thighs between my legs but for some reason it doesn't get me going and it doesn't feel like it should. My breasts are really sensitive and I don't get the sexual feeling like I should when he touches them.
I truly haven't felt horny in over a year and for someone my age, it's not right
I never have a dirty mind and I never think to myself..."Oh I'd do him" Any help would be appreciated. Also I'm looking into seeing a gynecologist to look into options. Other women on Yaz, please give me some input on whether it has messed up your drive as well.
Thanks!
Jamie
I'm a 21 yr old female that has little to no sex drive left. I've been dating a guy for almost a year now and I can tell the frustration is starting to build. I am a virgin and I used to have a pretty healthy drive during high school. I started using the pill (Yaz) because I loved how it kept everything regulated. My concern now is that it's totally wiped my sex drive.
Mentally I want to do stuff with my boyfriend but my body doesn't. It hasn't always been this way....as I've been in some pretty shitty relationships in the past yet i've wanted to be sexual but mentally and emotionally wasn't ready as well.
Currently my boyfriend and I still "mess around" but I know he's getting a bit frustrated. He's had sex with several partners before and I don't want to disappoint him but he knows my body isn't reacting the same way. We would make out and feel each other up...he even does the stuff I tell him which used to get me going like put my arms up behind my head and grind his thighs between my legs but for some reason it doesn't get me going and it doesn't feel like it should. My breasts are really sensitive and I don't get the sexual feeling like I should when he touches them.
I truly haven't felt horny in over a year and for someone my age, it's not right
I never have a dirty mind and I never think to myself..."Oh I'd do him" Any help would be appreciated. Also I'm looking into seeing a gynecologist to look into options. Other women on Yaz, please give me some input on whether it has messed up your drive as well.Thanks!
Jamie