I need help my my girlfriend/ Baby Momma Drama?

Justin

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Ok I know alot of people on here hate reading about people's relationship problems but ive been to myself about mines in public till now of course. I'm in a relationship with a 17 year old girl, well my baby momma. She's about 6 1/2 months pregnant and both families know already. As of now her family supports her, she doesnt work s she's just working on finishing high school. i'm 19 years old btw. I can say we've been through alot her her, parents jumping in, arguements , and fights. I recently started working two jobs to pay for my own bills and save for my daughter. I pay for my braces, car, and phone. Well lets jump to the situation... As of March 6, 2010 we've been together, im working on a year but the thing s she's been the type to break up with me. counting she's broken up with me 7 times, now making it 8 today before valentines day. All those times we're really dumb selfish reasons. For the record I've never cheated on her, treated her different,or ever got to the point ive gotten violent her here. This past recent weekend she went out of town with her family for her grandma's birthday. I was planning on going and had made plans since januaray with both jobs, and i was pretty confident i was going to get off both jobs so i was making plans with her for a month. Finally time came to make it offical and my weekend job didnt let me off . I was stunned but i had a week to find at somebody to cover two days, and well nobody helped me so i had to break the news to her and well she was sad. i was too but I know that I had to sacrifice and keep working so we can have money for our baby and well handle my responsibilities as much as it hurts. She complained aboutme having two jobs and that I'm never going to have time for our daughter, that i never giver her the time she wants. For the record I've been to every doctor's appoinment, been late to one but i came and showed up even if i was sick. Been there for her when times were bad, and take her out to eat and buy her what she needs so i've been there when everybody doubted me . I even go through tough times at home, my mother loves to pick a fight even at times hits me but I still work and see my girlfriend at least everyday no matter what. The day she left i went to buy her food and yogurt to drink on the long road and helped her dad who got out of surgury load thier truck/ Everything was sad but we knew it was just two days. The next day i didnt charge my phone, i texted her all night at my night job and all i have is a car charger, so my phone was dead and she had tried to call me and text. She went off thinking i was either up all night texting somebody else and styed out al night, the trtuh was I was at work from 6-2 and after went straight home without charging my phone hoping with low battery I would still be on,. i didnt wake up till 12:00 in the afternoon, so I texted her or was in the middle of typing it and she called but only let it ring once so she started thinking I didnt care about texting her back so she just told me to "enjoy my rest of my day ttyl" . It was kind of harsh especially if it wasnt my intention not to text back or call. So i explained and all she told me was, "okay babe", but my whole point is that why start an arguement for no reason. So I didnt respond all day , today We didnt text each other till tonight, she said " me and baby gaby (our unborn child) not like i care about asking." I was expecting a ext cause even she told me she would text me to go over. I called and she kept disconnecting and even turned off the phone. So i drove over to talk to her, we wentto sonic to buy her family food, I was telling her she started a fight for no reason and that ifeel she has no trust in me, and doesnt respect that I have to wrk to make ends meet to pay bills and save money , I wasnt yelling but telling her it was riciuolous she ws acting. Then we got home , we went to her room and she started packing my clothes i left and even baby clothes i bought for our child, she basically broke upp with me :( I've been trying to figure out what I did so bad for her to get to that poing again to brake up with me a 6th time or whatever count :( . I had to give up my key to her house, and walk out and leave . Especially before valentines day:( , I had bought her a necklace, red bed sheets and rose pedals to decorate her room and red balloons to cover her seleen. I'm just hurt that she wont fight to save this relationship like i am, and wont put up a struggle like ive been doing to keep this relationship going. If im wrong in anyway of my story please tell me, I wont take and criticizm to the heart. i just wish things didnt end up like this, like ive done so much, go through so much, and work hard to deseve this.
 
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