dude thats where u messed up
if all u have is sex thats all it would ever be
im guessing u guys made that promise n not catching feelings right??
to be honest dude it might not work out
u already had sex wit the guy and
if both ppl dont have the same feelings then it wont work
in a guys case if he get to soon
he looses intrese and the relationship wont last as long as u would want it to
so my advice leave it as it is stop having sex wit him and find someone else. or tell him straight up
i want more then sex if doesnt freak then work ut magic