I need advice on sex please?

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Okay lets start with the facts... im a 14 1/2 year old girl... im white... and my mom and i dont really have that open of a relationship i guess you could say... i know im too young for sex and i dont want to have sex yet...but i think i should tell my mom some stuff.. btw my mom is pretty against sex and doesnt trust me one bit... one time when i was like maybe 12 or 13 i was reading Seventen and i saw somthing about masturbation. i asked my mom what that was and she got all evasive and said, "Thats what boys do. They play with themselves." so i had to turn to the internet to learn about sex and masturbation. no i dont look at porn u perves. so but yeah ill admit i do masturbate. no i dont think i would tell my mom about that, even though its natural and lots of ppl do it, even girls... but i just wondered when i should tell my mom that i might want to have sex before marriage, or if i even should?what do you guys think?
and yeah i should be.. what you'd rather me be in the dark and be the kid that thinks babys come from flowers?? seriosly thats stupid!!!!
ha yeah thank you to cindy but theres no way in heck that im gonna wait till 18!! dang thats wayyy to far ahead.. i was thinking more like 16
 
I think you will learn more if you talk about this with some friends you can trust as I guess they will be sort of questioning this as well. Keep your thoughts of sex before marriage to your self till you meet the right person you will spend the rest of your life with. Some mothers are really open enough to talk about these things and it will be their up bringing that is the cause. Keep doing what you like doing as this is very healthy for your emotions. Go well.
 
she's acting that way because your so young... you really shouldnt be asking her these questions at your age.. its hard for parents to accept that your growing up.. very hard.. when you have your own children you'll understand. she is afraid that you will end up haveing sex soon.. you need to wait till your 18
 
why tell your mom about something you will be doing in the future ??....When you're ready for sex ..that's the time to talk to her about it...not now.
 
Hmmmm, dude masturbation is perfectly normal.....& i dont think u should tell her if u wanna have sex befor marriage..... but thats up to uu...
 
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