I need advice my boyfriend can't stay hard during sex...?

Rebecca M

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So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now, and we both have fallen for eachother. He says that I can easily have turned on just by kissing him. He can easily turn me on as well he even gotten me to have an orgasm (this was something that made me mad because i thought that i could never have one because previous guys i have dated could never accomplish me having one .) He gets really hard right before having sex, we use a condom and sometimes it's really hard for him to start having sex with me because he doesn't want to hurt me and i'm like really tight. During sex I don't know what happens he can't stay hard and it aggravates him. I try my best to undedrstand, I don't get mad at him but he just gets mad at himself for it. I tell him not to and that it's not his fault but he has no clue whats wrong. We have both had sex before with either a previous relationships but he tells me that it's never happen before and it's not because of me. He wants to get it checked out by the doctor soon becuase he has no idea what wrong any help?
just as a note my boyfriend is 22 and i'm 20. he also smokes but is trying to quit. again he has no clue why this is happening to him at this age.
 
Sounds like it is the condom. He may not feel enough to stay hard. Try another brand. If it is not that and if it has happened a few times it could be psychological, in that he is putting too much pressure on himself to perform. In that case he just needs to relax.
 
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