My Boyfriend (26) and I (19) have been together for quite awhile now, We don't live together yet, but hes working on getting out of his roomates house. Thing is, he's been raising his roomates child (his roomate is also his ex GF) He is not the father but refuses to let the child grow up without a dad, and he hasn't been with his roomate for over 2 1/2 years. Yet, because hes been there for her and her son, shes become obsessed and constantly think they're together, even though they haven't been for years, she always calls him "love, hunnie, Babe, sweetie" and he's told her to stop... NUMEROUS times, but she doesn't get the hint, she constantly calls his cellphone, and texts him, and always says "I love you" to him... and because he lives with her, if he doesn't say it back, she makes his life a miserable hell and I can sadly say I've seen it happen, Ive told him it bothers me, and he knows it hurts, but he keeps doing it, even though she treats him like garbage and he wants nothing to do with her, we have almost broken up over her possessive behavior, and I'm at the end of my rope here, He treats me like gold, he loves my parents, and they love him, they've invited him to live with us and he has said numerous times hes gunna marry me and Im the best thing that has ever happened to him, but hes in debt right now, and cant get out of there until he pays that off. I can't tell his roomate we're dating cause she will become even more and more possessive, even now, as the months go on, she becomes more and more obsessive because shes getting suspicious. We've had alot of talks about how this is complete BS and Im tired of him saying "I love you" to her, he cant ignore her calls cause shell call right back, she controls his whole life... its really getting to me, I love him dearly and breaking up isn't an option, but hes miserable living with her, and being controlled by her and her yelling and screaming and having to clean up the house cause shes a complete slob and take care of her kid cause she neglects him... and he says there is nothing I can do and he never wants to talk about it cause he knows deep down, he should stop... he just can't... but we cant stay together unless he stops, and though we've had talks... he still says I love you, and still calls her frequently when spending time with me so she doesn't get suspicious and does things for her to make his life less dramatic when he gets home... he does try though, and he keeps telling her to back off, and they fight daily, but I cant take this anymore.... I just need advice on what to do... please help...
He has 2 other ex's that call him/ text him daily too that they freak out on him if he ignores their calls.They also are possesive and treat him like shit, but because he's a good man, he can scream at them and rip their heads off say he doesnt want to talk to them, theyll still call back because he listens to peoples problems and gives them advice
He has 2 other ex's that call him/ text him daily too that they freak out on him if he ignores their calls.They also are possesive and treat him like shit, but because he's a good man, he can scream at them and rip their heads off say he doesnt want to talk to them, theyll still call back because he listens to peoples problems and gives them advice