I lost my brother in a car wreck and now i blame my parents?!?!?

[curiouscanadian]

First of all this is no ones fault!! Your parents are grieving in their own way and it is going to take years for them to get over this if they ever do. Hug them and tell them you love them and you will get through this time as a family. Let them know you are there for them always. You know we plan our own destinies before we ever get here in the first place - no one could have prevented this! You brother got through his lessons here very quickly it seems and must have been a really special person. He will always be with you no matter what.

 

[Megan]

I am 18 and my brother was 16 and he was killed in a car wreck and i think it is my parents fault. My parents let my brother go with his girlfriend to the beach about four weeks ago. And well on there way back there was a drunk driver that hit them head on and my brother was killed. And his girlfriend lived i feel like if my parents would of stopped him from going i would still have my brother. And i feel like my parents do not even love my brother they have not cried or anything and i can not stop sobbing. I don't know what to do, i just feel so alone and like no one even cares i lost my brother. Advice?