Me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship; he lives in Fresno, California, and I live in Chicago. We see each other once a month and we love each other. The thing is, I have trust issues. There have been several times when I have looked through his phone and he hates it. He acts suspicious and it only makes me want to look through it more. Last week, I was with him and I looked through his phone once again. I looked at his sent emails, and there were several emails he sent to himself the day before I got to CA. They were all pictures of the same girl. I was furious, but also quite heartbroken as it made me feel like I wasn't good enough for him. I confronted him about it that night and he didn't say anything. It wasn't until the next morning that he said, "why do you have to look through my phone every time we are together? Do you know I sent those emails on purpose just to see how much you actually look through my phone? Do you think I'm stupid enough to leave those pictures in my email knowing I'm going to be with you?" I felt terrible. He said that his brother has a Facebook (because he doesn't) and that he got the pictures from one of his brother's friends on his friends list. Point being, we made up. The thing is, I still have doubts. I trust him more than I trust anyone else (even though it doesn't seem like it), but I'm just extremely jealous. Is he telling the truth? Should I have believed him that easily?
I looked through my boyfriend's phone? ?
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