Grow a backbone girl! Have him run to the store for something and gather his stuff up and have it sitting outside when he returns. To hell with that. Don't let this loser do this to you. You will never be happy in this situation. No man is worth all that. Especially one that doesn't respect you. Like you said, he is using you. Throw him out now. I wouldn't even wait til morning. Put him out. Tell him to go live with his mother..or one of these girls he's chatting with. You will be so much happier with his sorry butt out the door.
