Okay more like 30 minutes ago.
I woke up to use the restroom and heard weird noises coming from my daughters room, i thought maybe she was having a bad dream or something, so i was going to go wake her.
I opened her door, and in FULL LIGHT, there she is no clothes on except this weird lingerie thing im not even going to describe, on top of some boy i do not know, and have never seen before. She quickly took the blanket to cover herself while I stood there is disbelief, shocked, and shut the door. I yelled from the outside that they both better be dressed in the next 2 minutes.
In two minutes time, i walked back in, and asked who the hell the boy was, learned his name, and that he was 16, and then instructed him to go home.
I then left her room, and want back to my room to regroup after the horrid scene I had just witnessed.
My husband is on a business trip. I wish he was here right now, but I cant even get him on the phone right now. He will call later. should i even tell him?
what now.
I need advice from other mommies of teens. What do I do now.
Do i yell at her? Do i buy a chastity belt?
Do i send her to an all girl private boarding school?
Should i drag her by her ear to the pharmacy to pick up some plan B?
I know unfortunately, birth control is a must now. =[
I don't know if a condom was used.
No samantha, she is FOURTEEN.
And might i add, shes just barely 14.
As in she turned fourteen 3 weeks ago.
She no longer has a lock on her door, as she was sneaking out in the middle of the night, and locking her door. I always thought she was in there until I heard her coming in one night at 4 am.
I woke up to use the restroom and heard weird noises coming from my daughters room, i thought maybe she was having a bad dream or something, so i was going to go wake her.
I opened her door, and in FULL LIGHT, there she is no clothes on except this weird lingerie thing im not even going to describe, on top of some boy i do not know, and have never seen before. She quickly took the blanket to cover herself while I stood there is disbelief, shocked, and shut the door. I yelled from the outside that they both better be dressed in the next 2 minutes.
In two minutes time, i walked back in, and asked who the hell the boy was, learned his name, and that he was 16, and then instructed him to go home.
I then left her room, and want back to my room to regroup after the horrid scene I had just witnessed.
My husband is on a business trip. I wish he was here right now, but I cant even get him on the phone right now. He will call later. should i even tell him?
what now.
I need advice from other mommies of teens. What do I do now.
Do i yell at her? Do i buy a chastity belt?
Do i send her to an all girl private boarding school?
Should i drag her by her ear to the pharmacy to pick up some plan B?
I know unfortunately, birth control is a must now. =[
I don't know if a condom was used.
No samantha, she is FOURTEEN.
And might i add, shes just barely 14.
As in she turned fourteen 3 weeks ago.
She no longer has a lock on her door, as she was sneaking out in the middle of the night, and locking her door. I always thought she was in there until I heard her coming in one night at 4 am.