I just told my ex gf about sex...?

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MAZe

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We've known each other for a good year and 2 months. We hooked up last yr but not officially because she loved her other ex and was confused..... both of us were on and off dating then finally she broke up with him for good and now she keeps her options open.. as for me I know for a fact that I'm the ONE for her because she doesn't act all flirty with me only to other guys............ so here..

I figured that I texted her about me letting out what I had to say. I asked her, "Would you ever do it with me?" I didn't text ask straight out like that. Of course I gave her hints before that question. Then she asked, "Why all of a sudden you said that?" I just told her, "I just wanna be straight out but I don't want anything to change between us after I told you.."

So today I got a morning text from her asking me, "Yo do you still think I see you in the same way?" I was like ??? then I asked her what made you ask me that? she just said "I dont know, it really got me thinking a lot" So I just told her... "Well, I'm being straight out and plus you told me to tell you its better off talking about it right? I'm a guy too you know" SHe said, "Umm ok that was random and for reals I never saw that coming from you."

SO GUYS FOR A FACT IKNOW I CREEPED HER OUT.. THATS WHY IM GIVIN IT SPACE FOR NOW.. I DONT WANT HER THINKIN I JUST WANT HER IN THAT WAY. I TOLD HER I RESPECT HER A LOT AND WOULDNT HURT HER....
 
yeah you're definitely too young and immature no guy above the age of 21 would ever write something like that yo.

LOL.. hopefully she blocked you off her phone.
 
u wanna be str8 out and u don't want ne thing to change pmsl 2 late the moment u said that it changed people hurt people nothing u can do about that what u consider hurting and others do is 2 diffrent things...it's time 4 a reality check
 
I don't really understand the text messages! Does she still like you like that? You need to ask her and you need to tell her how you feel, you clearly want to be with her so you need to tell her.

You said you know you are the one for her because she flirts with other guys and not you? That doesn't make any sense at all actually.

YOu need to be straight up with her and tell her that you don't want her for sex and that you want to be with her! You can't just ask her if she'd sleep with you but nothing else. You jumped a little far there and now you need to talk to her one on one and tell her how you feel.

By the sounds of it she just wants to be friends, but you'll only know the truth if you talk to her.
 
Never have a conversation that important by way of text message. That's the number 1, 2, and 3 problem here. You needed to try this in person, and come a little bit prepared with answers to what she might say to you.
 
so what's the question here?
You made her think that all your after is sex, that's bad for every girl. Just let her know how much she means to you and you don't care about that stuff until she does. Even if you do, just be honest with her.
 
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