I just lost a guidance counselor i really trusted?

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Mothermonsterlover99

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Okay, so my stepfather is recently in jail for a bank robbery. My mother is a full time college student, and didn't have money to pay any bills. So i had to move. My guidance counselor, she helped me through my dad being emotionally abusive, and getting over the fear of his drinking issue. Whenever he is drunk, he calls me a stupid fucking piece of shit :/ and i then start to believe it, and not only that he threatens to physically abuse me! like one time he said he was going to put my head through the wall and that he wanted to throw me through a window. He also is currently engaged to my mothers best friend, their wedding is in August. And she is currently knocked up, she is 6 months and is having a boy, I already have 3 brothers!!!! She helped me get through all of this, including my stepfather being in jail. I mean we still email each other, and we can contact through telephone, but its just not the same :(

I really need advice on how to get over all of this, before i lose control!! :(
im 13 almost 14
 
How old are you?
Use that email you have of hers, try to keep your head above water!... Save any $$ you can, all of it, dont spend it on silly things that most kids are priveliged enough to spend on, save it and leave!

I have been on my own since I was 17 years old. I also had a difficult up bringing, but I never allowed it to suck me in. I saved, and although it sucks to be young and not spend the money you earn working at a pizza joint (that was my job in my teens)... it was worth it... I saved all of my little pennies, and made a life for myself.
Dont victimize yourself, dont feel sorry for yourself... that will depress you and make yo want to give up... if you stay positive, work, finish school... and SAVE ( I cant stress that enough) you will make it on YOUR OWN, and the pride and scense of accomplishment that comes with that is amazing.

Show your looser relatives that you didnt need them to make it in life. Thats what I can always say!... I'm about to turn 30... and like I said, I've been on my own since I was 17, but even before that, while I saved my money I was technically already alone...

Let this be a test to yourself that you are capable of suceeding on your own... YOU CAN!
 
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