lovethekooks
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Recently i found out that my grandpa molested my mom when she was young like 10(I overheard her talking to someone about it she was talking about it with someone on the phone and was saying that she didn't know if her dad was drunk when he was doing that to her). At first i was freaking out, i mean that's like disgusting, but then i calmed myself down and after like 2 weeks i asked my dad if it was true and he said yes, but my mom doesn't know that i know.
So what feels really weird to me is that my mom still talks to my grandpa as if nothing ever happened, and other people in the family know about it(im pretty sure). How is this even possible?! I don't know if i would be able to talk to my dad if that happened to me. And also my mom let's my little sister's go over and stay at my grandmas house D: i mean what if my grandpa does that to them too?! i just have a lot of thoughts going through my head.
I used to stay over at my grandpas/grandmas house too when i was little and nothing happened to me, so maybe he has changed? but idk i still thinks its extremely weird (this whole situation) like everyone acting like it never happened and like everything is normal.
And now when i go to my grandpas house all i can think about is that he touched or molested my mom. I mean i don't know exactly what he did to her but still. And it's pretty weird like when I hug my grandpa that thought just comes to me.
What do you think?
Am i over reacting? im pretty sure im not though.
should i talk to my mom about it even though im not supposed to know?
So what feels really weird to me is that my mom still talks to my grandpa as if nothing ever happened, and other people in the family know about it(im pretty sure). How is this even possible?! I don't know if i would be able to talk to my dad if that happened to me. And also my mom let's my little sister's go over and stay at my grandmas house D: i mean what if my grandpa does that to them too?! i just have a lot of thoughts going through my head.
I used to stay over at my grandpas/grandmas house too when i was little and nothing happened to me, so maybe he has changed? but idk i still thinks its extremely weird (this whole situation) like everyone acting like it never happened and like everything is normal.
And now when i go to my grandpas house all i can think about is that he touched or molested my mom. I mean i don't know exactly what he did to her but still. And it's pretty weird like when I hug my grandpa that thought just comes to me.
What do you think?
Am i over reacting? im pretty sure im not though.
should i talk to my mom about it even though im not supposed to know?