I just don't really feel much while having sex with my bf...?

[Emie<3]

While we're having sex, I just don't really feel much. Not emotions wise, because I'm very much in love with him, but an arousal kind of feeling. He's pretty average in size.. about 6 inches but not very wide. We also have tried many positions but only a couple feel better than the others. To be honest... it feels better when he's fingering me or using his fingers inside. I really want sex to be more enjoyable for the both of us. What could the problem be and how can we fix it?

 

[baseballkid93]

have him finger you and touch you and warm you up first...then try having sex...if that doesnt work then tell him what you think will work better

 

[Graham H]

Does he have a bigger friend who can fill in for him from time to time?

 

[Red White and Ooze]

, you only look at guys as an object to possess like a car or a ring, you don't really like guys