I judge people . . .?

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Cadence

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I can't help that when I see a person I look at how they dress and act and how they talk and then proceed to judge them. I try not to let this get in the way when I interact with them.
But, the problem is, since I judge others so harshly, I know that other people might be judging me just as harshly and this prevents me from doing A LOT of things I would really want to do.

Is this some form of social anxiety?
How can I stop these judgmental thoughts from popping into my head?
 
my advise to you would be just worry about yourself, judging people gets you know where, you can't truly judge a person until you get to know them. i've seen millionaire's that dress like they are broke... everyone is equal, and everyone dresses different and acts differently thats what makes each individual so unique.
 
It might be a form of social anxiety, however, trust you me when I say EVERYBODY judges EVERYBODY at some point.We all do it, regardless of what we say.Some of us do it more harshly and repetitively than others, and that's what might be a bit out of line.Judging before we get to know others a little better is wrong, but, if most of the time you innitially judge someone, and find out the person is as crappy or as great as you judge them at first look to be, then it's good judgement on your part, so why would you want to get rid of that gift?If, however, you're not even giving these people the time of day to really figure them out for who they really are a bit, and you label them as good/bad based on a 5 minute conversation or a first look at their clothes, than you might want to take a look at your own character and figure out if you're doing it because you feel insecure (for example, if you see good looking person and you start searching for something wrong with them to make you look/be better than them) or is it because you have a superiority complex (for example, you feel you're too good to be around and talk to "that" kind of person).You can pretend with anybody out there, but if you can't be honest with yourself and figure out why you jump into quick judgement, than who can you be honest with??
 
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