planned escapade in Cambodia....? Obviously, he was guilty, since he was speechless for 10 minutes before he started making lame excuses, that it was a "friendly" gesture. Then he got mad at me, proclaiming his innocence, because according to him, "you cannot judge a person based on intentions, but by facts". Well, I thought about it. If someone plans to kill you, and you find out about it before the act was committed, would you still continue to trust that person? I also read some messages his ex gf sent him a few months before I discovered this correspondence, saying she misses him, and that they are meeting in some secluded hotel, called the Bi Saigon, in Vietnam. I find it weird. Because I would never say , "I miss you" to an ex, not unless I still have some emotions for him.
On her email, she did not reject the idea of joining him in Cambodia. In fact, she liked it, except that she did not have enough funds, and was asking him to shoulder the expenses. I concluded that she was a willing accomplice, since she did not refuse saying "It's not right, you are engaged to be married".
What do you think about this situation? If it happened to you, how would you react? Is this considered cheating? I'm talking about the planned sexual escapade that didn't happen. I have already drawn my conclusions on their previous meetings.
On her email, she did not reject the idea of joining him in Cambodia. In fact, she liked it, except that she did not have enough funds, and was asking him to shoulder the expenses. I concluded that she was a willing accomplice, since she did not refuse saying "It's not right, you are engaged to be married".
What do you think about this situation? If it happened to you, how would you react? Is this considered cheating? I'm talking about the planned sexual escapade that didn't happen. I have already drawn my conclusions on their previous meetings.