This sounds ridiculous, but I got involved with this "unavailable" guy and have been seeing him for approx. 4 years (on and off because I tried to break up many times). We haven't had sex, but have been intimate. Anyway, he can be quite insensitive at times and insulted me. The icing on the cake was when he told me that, as a farmer, that it was a "necessity" to kill barn kittens which I took in before handing them in to the SPCA. These kittens are so adorable. He told me that I was being illogical because I could handle seeing rats and other animals killed, but not kittens. I told him that kittens are made to be domesticated. I got so frustrated with him that I hung up the phone and I told him that I never wanted to speak to him again. Will he turn on me and use his rifle? This may sound paranoid, but I'm kind of scared for some reason. Honestly, will I be ok? I have a daughter and can't afford to be in danger.