should i do and with who? a girl-friend of mine and i have hooked up a couple of times and we are "attracted" to each other( we are keeping it a secret). another girl-friend of mine and i hooked up last night just once but we both like each other. the first girl keeps telling me to ask the other girl out or kiss her etc. i ask her if she cares because everytime im about to hook up with the 2nd girl the 1st girl tries to get me to kiss her etc. what should i do?