well im 21 and i weigh bout 75kg and im 165cm tall. everyone i know tells me im beautiful and not fat, and i honestly bealieve they mean it but how do i make myself see me like that. In logic yes i need to lose like 20kg to be happy and at a good weight but its not that easy and i think im ugly. Its really affecting me and i don't know what to do, i look in the mirror and i just think ew...... how can i somehow love myself?