Over the last few days, I have had a headache, cough, and a little (I mean really little) stuffy nose. Sounds like a typical cold, but with that I am extremely tired after 10 hrs of sleep a day. This has been happening for about a week; I have also been insanely bored, unmotivated, uninterested in the future, typically depressed, confused, and lonely. In High School, I don't have many friends and starting to dislike the friends closest to me and I'm really nervous with people around me. To be honest, the mental stuff (being bored) that I'm going through is bothering me more than the physical stuff (like my small cold I mentioned earlier).
I am turning 18 next month and having a little anxiety attack over that. The thing that is bothering me is my poor ability to communicate with women and I'm going to be a man soon. I am a Cambodian-American male. Many women, usually around 35 and up, would tell me I am extremely handsome out of the blue; unfortunately there's never been a girl my age to tell me that. Obviously, looks aren't everything and I know that, but my personality is so awkward that no girl would ever like me; I was born a very sensitive, compassionate guy as I remained that way from my moving from the city to the wealthy suburbs. I feel horrible about myself because I'm like more emotional than any girl and so far, I haven't met one person who likes that besides my mom. It's also key to mention that I'm not dramatic and no one has told me I am; I just let the tears fall when I'm saddened. Can someone tell me how to evaluate the situation? Trust me this isn't the only issue I have; I'm traumatized from my childhood, and it would be a long story to tell, but to let you know I'm serious, I've been raped.
I am turning 18 next month and having a little anxiety attack over that. The thing that is bothering me is my poor ability to communicate with women and I'm going to be a man soon. I am a Cambodian-American male. Many women, usually around 35 and up, would tell me I am extremely handsome out of the blue; unfortunately there's never been a girl my age to tell me that. Obviously, looks aren't everything and I know that, but my personality is so awkward that no girl would ever like me; I was born a very sensitive, compassionate guy as I remained that way from my moving from the city to the wealthy suburbs. I feel horrible about myself because I'm like more emotional than any girl and so far, I haven't met one person who likes that besides my mom. It's also key to mention that I'm not dramatic and no one has told me I am; I just let the tears fall when I'm saddened. Can someone tell me how to evaluate the situation? Trust me this isn't the only issue I have; I'm traumatized from my childhood, and it would be a long story to tell, but to let you know I'm serious, I've been raped.