I have a weird situation. Can you help?

[Jamie]

So, I became friends with these two guys about a month ago. They're part of a larger group I hang out with. I really like one of them, Matt, as in I'd like to date him. The other one, Tim, I really really like as a friend... just a friend. I feel like Tim might like me, but Matt doesn't seem to be interested in dating me.

Even though I really like Matt and am more attracted to him, I feel more comfortable being myself around Tim. I think it might be because since he already likes me, I feel like I could do anything or say anything and he would still accept me. But when I'm around Matt, I feel more shy and I guess I worry that something I say might change the way he feels about me.

I'm not sure what to do. I am not attracted to Tim, but because he's such a good friend and we get along so well, I don't want to send him the wrong message. And I don't want Matt to think I don't like him... what do you think I should do?

And by the way, it hasn't been confirmed whether Tim does like me or whether Matt does not... so it would be too weird to ask because they might be like, what are you talking about??

Thanks!

 

[Jess]

maybe matt wants your sex and tim wants your love, have both.

 

[Chyll]

I WAS IN THAT SITUATION ONCE!!!!! YOU HAVE TO WINK AT UR CRUSH OR PAY HIMSPECIAL ATENTION LIKE REMEMBER HIS B-DAY!!!!!!

 

[guitar hero master dude]

I say tim, why could he be a good friend but not a bf?

 

[San Diego Mama]

ummm make sure you get to know them more and know them fully.
you cant really make any judgements since you dont know for sure
i say date them both but not in an exclusive way. just hang out and be flirty and see who makes a move and what kind of move and then you can take it from there.