imported_Amber
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We have a great friends w/benefits situation, believe me. Please don't judge me for being in this situation. He takes me out sometimes, we are true friends, but he wants to be friends w/benefits. We've been going out for eight months now & I can tell he hasn't dated anyone while seeing me, although I know you probably think that's naive. We kiss and we don't just have sex, we're friends. However, when we make out, it mainly is oral sex, and it's rare we have sex. When we do, he can only last about three minutes. When I give him oral sex he lasts a long time. He is good about giving me oral sex. Is there a reason why he can't last while having sex? Is it because he doesn't want that closeness that sex brings or is it just because he can't last physically while having sex? Thanks~!