I have a horrible time making friends and I'm a military wife?

[Rachel D]

I don't quite know how to deal with the situation espeicially here in the next few months when we move again. I'm just awful at making friends. Nobody dislikes me, and everyone is perfectly friendly, I just can't figure out why nobody ever really gets that close to me. Like if 3 new girls including myself get together, they'll become bestest buds and I'm always forgotten. And my husband makes it worse. He has no problems making friends and doesn't see the big deal my just going to whatever gathering and getting all buddy buddy. It's painful to walk into a room where you know no one and basically say, hey be my friend. I have one really great friend where we're at now, who I was amazingly lucky to find, as she's very much like me, but I'm terrified of what will happen when we move. I'm afraid I'll get all depressed and stay shut up in my house all the time. What did fellow military wives do? Please advice or something.