James Dean
New member
So, I went on a date with a guy today. It was good. For once, I finally learned what the words: "go with the flow" mean. We watched a movie and we held hands. We walked around and talked. It was overall a good day. We are seeing each other again for a second date. We've come to the agreement that we are going to date each other.
Now, my question is, one of the things I've been scared and concerned about are STDs and HIV. We've also came to the conclusion that both of us aren't going to do any sexual activity until we are both tested. When should this test be done? Any suggestions? The thing is that he hasn't been tested at all. I've been tested at least 5x since coming out when I was 16, I am now 23 and he's 29 years old. I just want both of us to be clean and be okay. What's your two cents?
Now, my question is, one of the things I've been scared and concerned about are STDs and HIV. We've also came to the conclusion that both of us aren't going to do any sexual activity until we are both tested. When should this test be done? Any suggestions? The thing is that he hasn't been tested at all. I've been tested at least 5x since coming out when I was 16, I am now 23 and he's 29 years old. I just want both of us to be clean and be okay. What's your two cents?