I hate my mother in law, she kicked me out of her house?

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well first of all.....let me say im dppression....and well my mother in law kicked me out of her house, im not allowed to go to her house, to visit her son anymore since december 2008, she kicked me out because me and my bf got in a real big fight and well, i ended up with a cut lip, a ripped shirt, and bruises and scratches, then i tried overdosing (at his house)because i was very very depressed at that moment. She came in the room and saw me with my lip bleeding and bruises, and my shirt all ripped, and the first thing she told me, was that this was all my fault( my bf is bipolar, but she thinks hes a little angel)(oh n he got mad over nothing)she told me that i had provoked him, then she kicked me out of her house, do u really think i deserve for her to do that to me? please this is a q about MIL, not the bf......by the way im 17, my bf is an only child, and well i didnt live with him, i would just go over to her house just to hang out, but she doesnt want me close to her front yard anymore. Do i really deserve this? Do i deserve for her to kick me out?
 
Why do you keep calling her your mother in law if you're not married? If you were married you'd say "my husband" not my bf.

Anyways. Yes, if I were her I'd kick you out too. You and your bf obviously have a very tumultuous relationship and she doesn't want your fighting, bleeding or suicide in her house. Who the hell can blame her? She doesn't want to be dragged down to the police station in the middle of the night to answer questions about domestic violence or a suicide in her home. She has enough to deal with with her own child without having to worry about your problems too. You need to get help and get your life on track. (Be honest, you know I'm right) And so does your boyfriend. Unfortunately this is not something you can do together, so take some time and get yourself straightened out. Only then are you ready to be in a relationship with anybody and hopefully then you'll pick a partner who isn't going to drag you down with him as your current bf is doing to you now. Sorry for the tough love but you seem to have temporarily lost touch with reality.
 
I feel very sorry for you it is hard at 17 as you have all these romantic expectations about love and relationships . May-be your mother-in law was concerned for you that you may get hurt by her son as is thinking of your well being . It is not your bfs fault he has an illness and i do feel sorry for him if you were my daughter i would be concerned for your well being which is perhaps what your mother-in law means by her actions . i wish you all the best
 
Kate pretty much summed it up perfectly. Sorry, I know the truth can be tough to hear.
 
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