I've known this guy for several months. We've been hanging out a lot and we've become really close. We would hang out almost everyday and I often spent the night at his house, sharing his bed, often cuddling. He would text me and call me a lot, saying that he really misses me and that he really just wants to see me or hang out with me
When we began spending so much time together our friends started joking that we were dating. I called him my gay boyfriend. We joked about having sex all the time, just to mess with our friends.
One night we were all hanging out downtown and everyone was drinking. We were flirting and joking as usual. He kept saying he wanted me and that we were gonna have sex later that night. This was pretty normal.
After we all went to our separate homes, he began texting me. He wanted to know if it would be weird if we had sex. He wanted me to come over. I did. We started kissing and making out, then we had sex. I spent the night like I would any other night and left the next morning.
After that, I didn't hear from him. I had to text him. This was a few days ago. He hasn't been texting me as frequently as before. Usually he was the one that texted me and asked to hang out, but when I text him he doesn't respond and he seems uninterested in hanging out.
I may be over analyzing this. He may just be genuinely busy. I'm not sure if I should say anything to him. He's had sex with a girl before so I didn't think that would be the issue. I'm not sure if there is even a problem here, so any advice would be great. Should I say something to him? What should I say?
When we began spending so much time together our friends started joking that we were dating. I called him my gay boyfriend. We joked about having sex all the time, just to mess with our friends.
One night we were all hanging out downtown and everyone was drinking. We were flirting and joking as usual. He kept saying he wanted me and that we were gonna have sex later that night. This was pretty normal.
After we all went to our separate homes, he began texting me. He wanted to know if it would be weird if we had sex. He wanted me to come over. I did. We started kissing and making out, then we had sex. I spent the night like I would any other night and left the next morning.
After that, I didn't hear from him. I had to text him. This was a few days ago. He hasn't been texting me as frequently as before. Usually he was the one that texted me and asked to hang out, but when I text him he doesn't respond and he seems uninterested in hanging out.
I may be over analyzing this. He may just be genuinely busy. I'm not sure if I should say anything to him. He's had sex with a girl before so I didn't think that would be the issue. I'm not sure if there is even a problem here, so any advice would be great. Should I say something to him? What should I say?