I had sex.. how do I get over this guilt?

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Let me start this off by saying that I'm a 19 year old female, and didn't become sexually active until I was 18. It was a big mistake too. Now life is so much more complicated. I have gotten over the guilt of having sex with the first guy, because I met my boyfriend of 8 months, and we actually "made love" .. Now I've met a guy who is old enough to be my father and last night we had sex. Did I know it was coming? No. Did I want it to happen? No. Why did I let it happen? I have no idea. I LOVE my boyfriend. I know if someone else was telling me this story I'd start throwing it in their face about how could they love their boyfriend if they had sex with someone else. That's what I would love to know from myself, actually. How do I get over this guilt? I can't stand myself. I literally want to lay down, go to sleep and never wake up again.

I don't see how girls can have so many sexual relations and not feel bad about it.. at all. Same applies to guys. My friend goes out and has sex with a different guy every night, then comes home bragging about it. All I can do is cry.. What should I do? Advice/help.. please???
 
If you did this to me even if i loved you i would never take you back. This would ruin the relationship and cause trust issues that could not be mended. especially an old man. You made your bed and now you have to lie in it. I would think if i was him that you really didnt love/respect me if you did this. You have to live with this mistake and move on dont make it again when you have something goood. Sorry but u and the bf will never work.
 
I am at a loss for words.
Just relax and think things out before you get involved.
Things will be ok. Have faith in your self.
 
Your boyfriend should know. If he loves you the way you love him he'll learn to cope. Just ask yourself two questions, 1. if he does learn to cope, he may be aggrivated towards you and not trust you; Can you handle it? 2. Will you stick through his side if that "accident" happened?

Hope i helped,

Xoxo
 
Everyone is different there is no need to be judgemental towards others because they feel differently to you towards sex!
There is a very big difference between sex and love (dont call it 'making love' it sounds REALLY lame)
You didnt mention if you told your boyfriend that you slept with someone else....
 
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