das.frettchen
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I used to work with this girl about a year and a half ago and we got along pretty good but I had a girlfriend at the time so we stayed just friends. I've been single for a little while now and in the last couple months this girl and I started talking again but it didn't really go anywhere. I mean I definitely like her, she is such a sweet girl, she doesn't party or anything and rarely drinks those are big points for me, and she's so pretty.. I was pumped when I asked her if she'd like to hang out sometime and she got excited and immediately cleared up her sunday to hang out with me that weekend. Unfortunately I didn't know until that moment that she is hardcore religious and I'm agnostic. I went to church with her that weekend and then we went to lunch and I explained to her that while I do not believe in god or organized religions I'm not against it and I totally respect her views.. but I think she was a bit put off by it and we haven't hung out since then. When I ask her if she'd like to hang out she says "oh yeah definitely!" but her schedule is always "full". I've even flirted with her since then making comments like "oh and my dashing good looks" and she mumbled "well I can't deny that"
I think she's just put me in the friend zone because of the religion issue though so I'm pretty bummed about that. It's been a few weeks since I saw her since we live in towns an hours drive apart now but last night I had a dream about her. What really struck me was that it was daytime in the dream. That's a huge thing because I've never had a dream that was daytime before, I always dream about darkness and nighttime. Anyways so it was daytime and we were walking through a grass field on the edge of a forest and talking but I couldn't hear the words only see her mouth moving and she was smiling and glowing beautifully and then she turned toward me and kissed me. She then leaned back and smiled and then kissed me again several times. The dream was so real it was like I could feel how soft and warm her lips were and how silky her hair was as I slowly ran my hand through it.. but just like that the dream was over and I jolted awake with a smile and a hardcore warm fuzzy feeling in my chest and was so sad to realize that it was just a dream!
So do you think dreams really mean anything or are they just a reflection on our experiences and thoughts?
I think she's just put me in the friend zone because of the religion issue though so I'm pretty bummed about that. It's been a few weeks since I saw her since we live in towns an hours drive apart now but last night I had a dream about her. What really struck me was that it was daytime in the dream. That's a huge thing because I've never had a dream that was daytime before, I always dream about darkness and nighttime. Anyways so it was daytime and we were walking through a grass field on the edge of a forest and talking but I couldn't hear the words only see her mouth moving and she was smiling and glowing beautifully and then she turned toward me and kissed me. She then leaned back and smiled and then kissed me again several times. The dream was so real it was like I could feel how soft and warm her lips were and how silky her hair was as I slowly ran my hand through it.. but just like that the dream was over and I jolted awake with a smile and a hardcore warm fuzzy feeling in my chest and was so sad to realize that it was just a dream!
So do you think dreams really mean anything or are they just a reflection on our experiences and thoughts?