I had A clash with a boy a year older than me what will the law say....?

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I used to go out with this guy. When i dumped him he took it extremely bad saying he was going to kill himself. Just recently he said that i deserved to be raped and he hopes it happens again. i held my anger in and agreed to meet up with my mate and the boy (james*) came with him tbh i thought it had all blown over by now and i was willing to be civil although while on the bus my mate said that he had been saying things about me some which could have implyed that he wanted to be the one to rape me this time others about his friends making racist comments i later confronted him. We had a few pretty meaningless fights that day until he said he wishs that i died when i last had a panic attack,, i got extremely annoyed at this comment and said that his grandad is probably happyer no hes shot of him. He threw what he was holding down on the floor and raised his fists up to my eye level. It was instinctive i grabbed his wrists and held him away from me,i made a few punctures in his wrist
they bled. he is now saying he is going to call the police. May i mention that im a 13 year old private school girl and he is a 14 year old state school boy who is taller than me
i just want to know what my legal status is
Many Thanx
Btw Half Of this is my statement and could he get done for racism too?
He is trust me he is crazy he was waving a poster at my boyfriends uncle!! shauting aswell
 
Self defense. He won't call the police, because you'll tell them that he attacked you.
 
I have no idea. If he does go to the police, then you would be better to go to them first, or they will go a little more willingly to his side. But did he rape you? if he did, then you can press charges on him for that, or for being assulted. Im pretty sure. Look, im pretty sure this stuff is right. I'm only 12, but I watch my fair share of law and order, and stuff like that. :D sorry, bout him. but i would press charges first. Glad i could help.
 
You were defending yourself against an agressive and unbalanced boy.

Tell him to "Sure call the police and give them my number so I can tell my side of the story!!"

I will guarantee you he is too much of a coward to call any police. But maybe you should? This guy sounds a little off...
 
It was in self defense. If he wants to call authorities let him and when they come to you then give them names of the people that know the things he has said to you and anyone that was there when the altercation happened. Since you don't go to the same school stay away from the guy. Seems you two have no reason to be around each other so just make sure to keep your distance. Don't talk to him or about him and pretend he never happened and won't again, make sure to have someone with you at all times so they can help you or witness his actions toward you. If he continues his harassment then call the police, tell your parents. Document everything he says time and date, document anytime he puts his hands on you and take pictures and call police(THEY WANT TIMES AND DATES OF OFFENSES!). After you do this you will be more likely to get a protective order that says he cannot come near you or he could be arrested. In the one I have against my ex he isn't even allowed to yell at me over the phone. Usually by the time the order wears off(here it is 2 years) they have moved on to torturing someone else. But as long as you continue to initiate contact including talking about him, to him, in his direction or being around him the authorities will not take you as seriously and chalk it up to kids just disagreeing.
 
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