I guess you call it "libido loss" I hate sex while pregnant!!?

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Me and my boyfriend don't have sex that much now that I'am 6mnths pregnant. It has been almost 2mnths since we've been intimate. He keeps getting on my nerves asking me to do any little thing sexual. What should I do? Because I hate sex now,I feel filthy and sad afterward.
I do it for him anyways though but I feel depressed afterward.
 
aww hunni that sucks...

If I were you I would talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel. If he loves you he will understand.

Go out and buy him a pocket pussy...I know it sounds funny...it does the same job for guys as a vibrator does for girls...tell him that you are completely ok with him using it and you wanted to get him something that would keep him satisfied until your libido speeds up again.
 
lol same here huney and it will not change im sure til after baby comes. I am 31 weeks and every since about 4 months sex has seemed like a chore and i hate it. tell him u arent feeling well or if he dont go to the dr.s apts with you say the dr. said its not good for you lol idk my husband is just used to it now lol
 
It is all about the hormones.

Throughout your pregnancy, you may notice that your sex drive begins to change: some days you may feel very sexual, while other days cleaning the grout in your shower sounds like more more fun than getting between the sheets. These changes are entirely normal and are often a typical part of pregnancy. So whether your sex drive is up or down, don’t worry – there is nothing wrong with you.

Sex Drive in Overdrive
Many pregnant women report that they actually experience a dramatic increase in their sex drive during pregnancy. This is typically due to the change in hormones that your body goes through when you are pregnant.

In order to support your pregnancy, your body increases the amount of progesterone and estrogen in your bloodstream. As a result, you may feel the need to be with your partner more than usual. This increase in hormones has a number of physical effects on your body, which can often make sexual intercourse much more enjoyable than usual. These changes include:


increased vaginal lubrication
increased sensitivity of the breasts and nipples
increased blood flow to the pelvic area

Some women also report that they feel sexier during pregnancy. Those added curves around your hips, breasts, and stomach can contribute to an increase in your sex drive.


You may offer him the opportunity to use a surrogate while you are dealing with your pregnancy. (That way, you won't have to deal with "cheating" issues)

Good Luck, and congratulations!
 
Tell him you pregnant and you don't want sex,
women have weird cravings when they are pregnant
 
With my son I was always jumping his bones and now that I'm pregnant with my daughter I don't even want him to touch me at times. It's all hormones and it will go away. Your boyfriend needs to understand that you don't feel like yourself and should respect that. Sex isn't everything in a relationship but it does keep the bond there. Let him know about the way you feel. The way you feel is perfectly normal while pregnant, talk to your doctor as well about this just so they can know about it. I'm not saying you will have this but don't be surprised if you have Postpartum depression after the baby is born. Best of luck hun.
 
I know how you are feeling. I am 6 and a half months pregnant and my boyfriend and I have not had sex in close to 2 months too. It's hard when you are feeling and looking bigger to feel sexy. Before I got pregnant I had a high sex drive, but now I don't enjoy it as much. Sometimes it hurts because my vaginal all is so tender and sometimes I just don't have the energy for it.

Talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you are feeling. Tell him it has nothing to do with you, you just don't really have a sex drive right now. It is normal, not every pregnant women will want to have sex all of the time. Hang in there, I am still hoping that my sex drive will come back soon.
 
It's just a loss of libido and you need to explain that to him. tell him how you feel about it, it's completely normal, and he should be understanding. If he won't stop tell him that he's got to sleep on the couch until he clears his head. lol.... works for my husband.
 
Thats understandable,the hormones can do weird things,it happened to my friend but i'm not gunna lie,it caused some problems for her (the man got suspicious she wasn't interested in him anymore,then thought she was cheating and in turn cheated on her.) But if you really care about him then i'm sure you want to releave his tension.So you dont wanna do the main event,no big deal,but it's nice to compramise and do some of the little things to tide him over.i wont get into details but u no what i mean,just compramise,u know?
 
u better have sex with him cause if you don't someone else will men do cheat while there girl is pregnant trust me it happened to me because of my lack with sex take it once and a while and please him cause when he stops asking u know he's getting it else where
 
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