today i was in charge of watching over a 4 yo girl and 2 2yo twins. the 4 yo tried to steel like a hand full of band aids , i know this because when i walked in the room the twins were cored in them and i found them in her pocket, so i put her in time out but she starts rocking a small coloring table in front of her leaning it back and forth, i quickly tell her that she was in time out and told her to stop but she didn't. so i moved the table away but she hangs on to it so i slapped her hand away but she kept trying to grab the table so i garbed her by the wrist and held her till the five min was over was this bad or abusive?