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total mammas boy? i have known him for 11 years, we were best friends for about 5 years before we started dating- like a year and a half ago. we've been there for each other a lot, but sometimes i wonder if i am in love with him or not... although i know our relationship is extremely close and i do have love for him. i get really annoyed with him sometimes, nothing he does consciously, just little things like the annoying sounds he makes while sleeping... and the fact that he passes out on the couch the very second he finishes eating dinner.... every nite! ugh.
he is very sweet and loving, and would be a great dad and husband... but his mother is overbearing, manipulative, and was a total ***** to me. she was being very unreasonable. and now she wants to meet "in person" to "clear the air" although frankly i am like... is it worth it? should i even bother? should i break up with him bc lets face it, she's not going anywhere anytime soon!
PLUS theres the whole, do i love him debate... if i'm not 100% sure i'm in love with him (and sometimes i stare at him while he's sleeping and it's like nails on a chalkboard all the annoying things he does in his sleep).... maybe i should just break up with him??
i'm turning 30 in 4 months... and i've been in the wrong relationship with 2 other men aka mr. wrongs for the last 6 years.... and i regret dedicating so much time to those failed relationships when i could have ended them sooner and moved on, and possibly met my mr right by now!
what do you think... should i let this fish go? is it worth it to work on the relationship with his mom, or does it even matter if we are breaking up?
i honestly cannot tell if it is "normal" to have these feelings about your sig other. is it normal for the little things they do to make you annoyed as ****? should i find the stupid sounds he makes cute?
he is very sweet and loving, and would be a great dad and husband... but his mother is overbearing, manipulative, and was a total ***** to me. she was being very unreasonable. and now she wants to meet "in person" to "clear the air" although frankly i am like... is it worth it? should i even bother? should i break up with him bc lets face it, she's not going anywhere anytime soon!
PLUS theres the whole, do i love him debate... if i'm not 100% sure i'm in love with him (and sometimes i stare at him while he's sleeping and it's like nails on a chalkboard all the annoying things he does in his sleep).... maybe i should just break up with him??
i'm turning 30 in 4 months... and i've been in the wrong relationship with 2 other men aka mr. wrongs for the last 6 years.... and i regret dedicating so much time to those failed relationships when i could have ended them sooner and moved on, and possibly met my mr right by now!
what do you think... should i let this fish go? is it worth it to work on the relationship with his mom, or does it even matter if we are breaking up?
i honestly cannot tell if it is "normal" to have these feelings about your sig other. is it normal for the little things they do to make you annoyed as ****? should i find the stupid sounds he makes cute?