I have been trying to get answers how to handle this.
About a week ago I got pretty high after an orientation party at my new school (I'm a freshman in college) and I went back to a guy's dorm room with him because I really liked him. After he and I had sex I fell asleep in his bed because I was still high and he let his roommates take advantage of me during the night.
I have been struggling a lot with how to handle this because I am embarrassed because of what happened and because now I have a reputation as a slut with all the new people that I met. I have been basically hiding in my room a lot and I have been considering just calling home and saying that I hate it here and want to withdraw and come home and apply to a different school or go to another that accepted me already. I haven't really spoken to anyone about this. I have asked some questions on here about it trying to get some good advice but I get a lot of people saying I should call the police or being mean. I don't know what the police could do anyway because there isn't any evidence now and thinking about all of the drama that would bring makes me feel sick inside. I just am trying to figure out how I can not feel embarrassed and ashamed when I hang out with the new people I have met here? I figure maybe other women might have some ideas so if you do I would appreciate it.
About a week ago I got pretty high after an orientation party at my new school (I'm a freshman in college) and I went back to a guy's dorm room with him because I really liked him. After he and I had sex I fell asleep in his bed because I was still high and he let his roommates take advantage of me during the night.
I have been struggling a lot with how to handle this because I am embarrassed because of what happened and because now I have a reputation as a slut with all the new people that I met. I have been basically hiding in my room a lot and I have been considering just calling home and saying that I hate it here and want to withdraw and come home and apply to a different school or go to another that accepted me already. I haven't really spoken to anyone about this. I have asked some questions on here about it trying to get some good advice but I get a lot of people saying I should call the police or being mean. I don't know what the police could do anyway because there isn't any evidence now and thinking about all of the drama that would bring makes me feel sick inside. I just am trying to figure out how I can not feel embarrassed and ashamed when I hang out with the new people I have met here? I figure maybe other women might have some ideas so if you do I would appreciate it.