i got a few questions about herpes! Any one with knowledge of this please click this question thanks!?

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I took an std testing about a week ago. I got my results stating that i was positive for herpes type 1 & 2! Now i had no symptoms for either one of these. I am lost on alot of things. My dr said if i take valtrex i can have sex with no condom on with my clean partners and they will be safe there is no risk for them catching it. I may have misunderstood my dr wrong. I think the right way is to have sex with a condom on & take the valtrex. I know for a fact that herpes is very contagious! Now here is another problem how the heck can i figure out what partner gave it to me. I have 3 partners currently right now. The first one its been long term for a year & we dont wear condoms. The 2nd guy i have been seeing him for 3 weeks & he wears condoms with all of his partners. I dont like condoms period so i took it off when we were having sex cause i didnt like it. And we only had sex one time. The 3rd guy we had sex 2 times i am his 2nd partner! He wore a condom with his first partner to. With me we didnt cause i knew i was clean! Well i thought i knew i was clean. I took a std test i believe about a year ago and i was clean at that time. The person that i think i caught it from was guy number 1 cause we dont wear condoms. If he had sex with any one else he may not of wore a condom wiht them either sense he dont like condoms. The dr put me on valtrex. I already started that already. Now this is the next question im scared about... I am scared i gave it to my partners cause i didnt know i had it. I called guy number 2 up and let him know and he freaked out some & told me he wore condoms with every one thats why i said that ealier. And guy number 3 said he wore condoms with every one to. Thats why i think its guy number 3. I havent talked to guy number 1 yet! I havent had time to call him yet or actually he is at work. Ok here is more questions..sorry for the questions i am extremely mad that i got this. Ok im on valtrex; say forth i give a guy a blow j*b and he has herpes like i do; can i give my mouth herpes? I also am having 2 of the partners tested to see if either one of them caught it from me or has it to see if either one of them gave it to me. Guy number 2 is scared to have sex fearing he will catch it! I am not sure what im supposed to do. I want to continue having sex with him but how likely is it for him to catch it? If im on valtrex and wear a condom how likely is it for him to get it?How about without a condom on? I know u r not supposed to have sex when u have an outbrake cause i know u can spread it at that time. Thanks guys for answering these questions cause im totally in shock right now. Tryin to figure out who gave it to me and if i passed it. Thats why im totally freaking out! And please if u r going to leave a smart remark please i dont want to hear it. I am a 29 year old female and i have had only like 5 partners. So ya please dont call me a slut cause i know im not!
 
YES IF HE IS NOT BEING TREATED AND FIRST OF ALL CONDOMS DO NOT PREVENT THE SPREAD OF HERPES BECAUSE ITS SKIN CONTACT THAT SPREADS IT NOT SO MUCH FLUIDS . IM SORRY I COULD ONLY ANSWER 2 FOR. PLEASE DONT BEAT UR SELF TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHO GAVE IT TO YOU YOU WILL NEVER UNLESS THEY ADMIT IT TO U
 
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