I get really nervous for my first time having sex! What can i do to fix this?

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I'm 17 years old and This past weekend i have attempted to have sex with my girlfriend twice but found like i couldn't do it. We were fooling around on my couch and i got hard really quick but once i got upstairs and we got naked i found it very difficult to again. She started rubbing me and then i got back into it but once i put the condom on and was going to penetrate her i was semi-hard. I couldnt penetrate her. So she blew me and stroked me until i got back up again but by that time i was about to come. This has happened twice to me and her so far and i'm wondering if i'm just putting to much stress on myself and if so what can i do to fix this. I'm in love with this girl and she drives me crazy so i know the attraction is definitely there. We are really comfortable with eachother too.
 
make it the last thing on your mind. do lots of foreplay and please her with your hand or mouth. When you don't think about it all the time, you will be able to do it.
 
You have to be married first. God is flicking your flaccid penis to keep you pure until you have registered with the government and have a proper license to consummate this relationship. Or you're gay.
 
dont worry about it. everyone gets scared like that for the first time.it's like stage fright.once u do what u have been doin for a while, it will get better...trust me.

Good luck!!!
 
Thats happend with me and my boyfriend, twice as well....
freaky...

Just get naked with her more and build up the confidence :)
Sure enough you'll be fine soon.

Just get her more horny and it will rub off on you.

Good Luck :)
 
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