Jamie DiGiacomo
New member
...I should discuss with him.? I am pregnant by my best Friends older brother. One year ago I was living with my ex one night I stayed at my best friends house to get away from my ex and never left. I ended up sleeping with her brother and things were good. We became best friends ourselves. We never had a title and I didn't mind because it seemed to work. Things started getting rocky around October. We broke everything off and one night we found ourselves alone and right back at square one. I love him with all my heart however I don't think the feelings are mutual. I found out I was pregnant and he took it pretty well. He said he would be there for me know matter what I decided to do. I'm 23 an he's 24. We have great jobs and we have both finished school. I couldn't imagine why I would give up such a gift. So I told him I was keeping it. He was shocked but again said he would be there. Something happend and he changed his mind. Along with his whole family. I feel horrible like I'm being treated like a stranger when I have knowen this family for 11 years and was actually closer to his parents than my own. I have lots my best friend as well who is his sister because she says I'm ruining her brothers life. I've moved back home with my mom but he says he wants nothing to do with this but it's his child too. I'm nit quite sure what he means and I'm also not sure what I am and what I'm not supposed to discuss with him. We haven't spoken in almost a month now and my first sonogram is coming up. He's not a bad person but I can't keep making excuses for him. How do you know what decisions we should make together and what I should decide on my own! Please help!!! This is so hard without him and his sister 