i found out i had herpes two months ago. i told my boyfriend and he got

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cierra

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tested..claim he doesnt have it.? i did cheat on him once but me and the guy used a condom. me and my boyfriend neva use a condom. do u think he lying, telling the truth of just in denial?
 
Hmm toughy... does he know you cheated on him? If anything he could have cheated on you, and is to afraid to tell you he has them to because he doesn't want you to know he cheated and gave them to you. Lol i think to much into things though...

You can get it even when wearing a condom, but the chances are very very low and he would have had to be in the middle of a break out. You can also get them from mouth to genital contact, if the person has a cold sore at the time.

I guess you will really never know, but if you are having doubts on his honesty about it, you may possibly want to find someone you can trust.
 
Its very possible your boyfriend does not have the virus, wearing a condom does not protect you fully from Herpes, as the sores are not limited to the shaft of the penis alone, which a condom only covers, he may have had sores on his scrotum or pubic area.

Your current boyfriend may not have been exposed to any blisters from you yet.
 
If he has been tested and it came up negative, he has been lucky so far. If he hasn't been tested after having sex with an infected person (and he knows it), I'd say denial is only one of his problems.
 
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