I found a naked picture of my husband on a booty call website, what should I do?

[Maia Black]

My husbands phone rang at mid-night which sparked me to look thru it. (Going back a little bit he is always on the net on his phone and at home.) Once I look at the phone I didn't notice the number, but that didn't brother me at all. I really wanted to see what he was looking at on the net, which I knew he didn't remember to erase. Once I seen the sites he was visiting which was all porn sites, I decide to look into one which caught my eye (something about booty call, sound like cheating) I went on and seen he had all of these lady friends and I then looked at his profile which had two pictures of his face and one of his penis. He told me that he was bored and it was just for entertainment. I am very upset and he thinks I should just get over it. What do you think?

 

[Sausage Mahoney]

Reply back to him with your own naked picture. Wear a mask, though, so he won't recognize you. Then you can set up a date, and POW! You've caught him.

 

[Dave B.]

I can't even believe you're asking this. Divorce that bastard!

Cheating is never forgivable, and it shows how much respect your partner really has for you: none. Sometimes dangerous situations find us, but your husband actually went LOOKING for trouble! I'm not sure what more you need here.

Showing your business to the world on a booty call site is NOT entertainment. God, did he seriously post his face AND his penis on there? How many people that you've met now know what your husband looks like naked?

I'd probably be a bit vindictive here, and send links of the profile to his friends, parents, and his boss--but I'm not married to him, either. Still, you should stand up for yourself and toss his ass in the street, NOW. Don't even finish reading this; tell him to pack his stuff.

I assume you're still reading. Anyway, if you let this go, what he does next is YOUR FAULT. I'm not trying to be harsh here; a man (or woman) can only treat us as badly as we let them. If you pet a dog and get bitten, would you pet the dog again? Hell no! You only get to be a victim once. If you let this slide and then later catch him in an affair, it's you that allowed that to happen. Why aren't you expecting better for yourself? Do you think if you did this (and the other things that he's probably been doing) that someone should keep you around? Have some self-respect and kick his cheating ass to the curb.

 

[MIMB]

congratulate him on being such a popular guy and then either leave him or condone his actions
do you really think this man is going to change? not very likely

 

[Out for freedom of Speech]

He is a perv,kick him out....

 

[starfish]

If he really hasn't cheated yet it's only because he couldn't find anyone that was willing.

If he cannot atone for this behavior and address the issues that caused it, then you need to leave him.