My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year, I am 20 and he is 24. We live an hour apart so we only see each other every couple weeks. He's always wanted to do kinky things like threesomes and anal and a bunch of other stuff. I told him I'd do a 3some if he found a girl (he never will so I'm not so worried but I'd do it if he did) but I'm still not so into the idea of anal. Anyway, recently I've been wanting to get some sexy lingerie and sex toys (things he's mentioned before as wanting to do) for our one year anniversary, plus I just generally want to try new things. When I mentioned it to him he was like "eh" and told me to save my money.
I talked to him more about it later and found out he just generally isn't interested in new sex related things anymore. Even if I agreed to anal he wouldn't do it and he doesn't want to try anything new. I never thought I'd be the one wanting to do kinky things and my bf wouldn't be into it but here I am and I don't know what to do. Help, I don't know why he feels this way and he says he doesn't know either. He says he's not depressed or stressed about anything and he just graduated college this week. This doesn't seem normal for his age so I don't know what it could be.
P.S. I am 100% positive that he is not cheating on me.
He has done (or at least said he has done) a lot of these things before, he said one of his girlfriends in high school was super kinky like that and that he's already done anal with her.
I talked to him more about it later and found out he just generally isn't interested in new sex related things anymore. Even if I agreed to anal he wouldn't do it and he doesn't want to try anything new. I never thought I'd be the one wanting to do kinky things and my bf wouldn't be into it but here I am and I don't know what to do. Help, I don't know why he feels this way and he says he doesn't know either. He says he's not depressed or stressed about anything and he just graduated college this week. This doesn't seem normal for his age so I don't know what it could be.
P.S. I am 100% positive that he is not cheating on me.
He has done (or at least said he has done) a lot of these things before, he said one of his girlfriends in high school was super kinky like that and that he's already done anal with her.