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2 years ago, she was just being herself so I didn't mind whether she was girly or tomboy, because she wanted to be an emo.
A year later, I didn't know why she wants to be a tomboy. But since then until now, she likes an asian actor. So she felt gross to pink and hates skirt.
Now, when she listens to someone who talked about girly-ness, she keeps forcing to talk like boy, such as downed her sound to be boy, and says thanks when someone tells her handsome or tomboy about her style. But at talking about her boyfriend ir her friend's, she acts naturally girlish. Plus, when she will take a picture, she wears guy-things. Cap, jacket, hoody, everything.
I secretly feel annoyed, and I never tell her how I feel because I and she feel have something in common so I don't want to break our friendship. But now I feel competitive, and she doesn't, of course.
I also think that tomboy be friends mostly with boys, play sport, look tough, or play video games. But she acts the opposite direction!
It feels hard to tell her to be herself, while I'm afraid she'll be offended. If she asks why, what will be the answer?
So I ask, what should I do? And I think your answer will be ignore, I've done that, but still.
A year later, I didn't know why she wants to be a tomboy. But since then until now, she likes an asian actor. So she felt gross to pink and hates skirt.
Now, when she listens to someone who talked about girly-ness, she keeps forcing to talk like boy, such as downed her sound to be boy, and says thanks when someone tells her handsome or tomboy about her style. But at talking about her boyfriend ir her friend's, she acts naturally girlish. Plus, when she will take a picture, she wears guy-things. Cap, jacket, hoody, everything.
I secretly feel annoyed, and I never tell her how I feel because I and she feel have something in common so I don't want to break our friendship. But now I feel competitive, and she doesn't, of course.
I also think that tomboy be friends mostly with boys, play sport, look tough, or play video games. But she acts the opposite direction!
It feels hard to tell her to be herself, while I'm afraid she'll be offended. If she asks why, what will be the answer?
So I ask, what should I do? And I think your answer will be ignore, I've done that, but still.