I feel like im in so much mess. advice?

[?Katie?]

I've been with my boyfriend 2 years and we've lived together for about a year 1/2 because his family moved away and he didn't want to leave me. But eventually we moved with his family and I hate it so much I thought by now we would have our own place. But he's struggled to find a job and my job pays really bad. The past week I've been thinking of ways to sort our live and this feels right to me because when were together constantly we don't want to do anything I feel like I have no life at all in me. But I love him a lot so its not a matter of breaking up. This is what I think is best right now but he got really upset (which he never does). I want to move back home which is really far away and get a job save my money, come see him every so often and he do the same and then move back in together just me and him. This is how normal people in relationships do it. Not move into each others familys homes really early on. I love him very much and wouldn't time apart and still being together afterwards prove were ment to be together? But he says its a bad idea and gets really upset. My head is so confused right now I need so other advice than familys and friends. Thankyou