Squeegee Beckingheim :-)
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Sorry, I couldn't think of a better way to word it. My boyfriend is 17 and I am 16, and we've been together for over a year. We're on intimate terms, but holding out on sex because of the obvious risks. Anyway, every time things get intimate, I'm always the one who enjoys it the most. My boyfriend is really great at making me feel good, and, to be honest, I'm really terrible at reciprocating it. It's just... an instinct I don't have? I'm not sure. I've tried reading info on some things to try in Cosmo and stuff, but all of it ends up failing because I just don't know what to do. I just end up feeling so terrible after we're together because I know I'm not making him feel as good as he makes me. I've tried to talk to him about it, but he always says it doesn't matter to him and he doesn't want me to do anything I'm not comfortable with, and just making me feel good is good enough for him. But this makes me feel even worse! Suggestions?