I don't like him, but I like talking and flirting with him?

Julie

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there's this guy on my bus that i've known for a while now, i don't like him, but i like seeing him cuz we flirt? and i never just flirt with guys, but we connect well.
anyways, we've always joked around and cracked jokes. then he would jokingly be mean to me cuz he knew it made me mad, so id hit him in the leg and stuff haha. he would just laugh when i hit him.
then yesterday i said to him ur gonna be abusive to ur wife arent u? and he said no i wouldnt abuse u then he quickly said i mean i wouldnt abuse her. then he started talking to me about kids and he knows i like them, and he said he did too and wants 4 then asked me how many i want, so i said 5.

anyways ppl notice it too but in our group of friends, i'll just look over and this guy will be staring at me in a wierd way it's almost intense.
moving on, one day he was annoying me so i sat on his leg not in a slutty way but thinking it would be a way to keep him from kicking me. then a week or two later i found myself doing it again, and sometimes he'll push me off eventually, but i sat on him yesterday and he didnt kick me off once. and i fell back on him when our bus turned so i was laying my whole back on him, and we just sat there for like a minute with my head on his chest, and when i looked up at him he was smiling down at me...cuz he didnt say anything i said well this is uncomfortable and he said haha yeah. so i got up and sat in my seat. but for a couple weeks now, he gets upset and makes me talk if he thinks im not talking enough. sometimes im just sitting in my seat texting for like a minute and he'll tap me with his foot and smile. now when i see him at school he always comes up to me and talks to me, and almost everytime im looking around and i see him, he'll be staring at me. what does this mean, are we both just flirting in good nature or is there something more there?
 
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